​Alisha Garber and her son, Asher, walk by the sea during some family time. Alisha and Joshua Garber serve with Mennonite Mission Network in Barcelona, Spain. Photo by Joshua Garber.  

By Joshua Garber
Wednesday, October 2, 2019

Three missionary myths

Note: This is the introduction and the first of a three-part series that addresses some of the common myths and misconceptions we experience most regularly as international service workers for Mennonite Mission Network in Barcelona.

Some time ago, I talked to my friend Daniel, a monthly donor to our ministry, about challenges we face in maintaining connections with folks in the United States while serving abroad. Our communication becomes increasingly challenging and distorted. And folks who care about us a great deal can end up saying the most hurtful, deflating things.

"'You out drinkin' with my gifts?!'" he said in his best "church-person" voice with a laugh. "Wow, it seems you guys have a double standard for having fun!"

I love Daniel's way of keeping things in perspective. The reality is the work we do in Barcelona (and before in Lithuania) does not fit the classical missionary stereotype. We serve in a first-world country riddled by spiritual poverty. Often, the baggage of the institutional church does more to create barriers between people and Jesus rather than facilitate connections.

For example, we're not digging wells, converting villages of poor people and dressing in some relatively exotic fashion. That's not to say those types of missions are unimportant. And in many contexts, this work has been done by amazing, faithful people responding to God's call. But that's not who we are and that's not who we should be in our context.

For our first two years in Barcelona, our stated objectives have been:

  1. Learn the language well.
  2. Engage in the local culture and figure out how to fit into it.
  3. Build relationships.

We are doing foundation work that is as challenging to portray as it is meaningful and important.

Ministry happens as we carry out our objectives. Most of our supporters know and understand this … but the legacy image of what international missions should look like always seems to linger. The dissonance that image creates with the parts of our experience we're able to communicate, combined with the hallmark American fear of getting duped or flimflammed, often results in some unfortunate encounters and assumptions.

The following is the first of a three-part series that addresses some of the common myths and misconceptions we experience most regularly while serving with Mennonite Mission Network in Barcelona.

Myth #1: Our European Vacation

We love to travel and likely would not have found ourselves living outside the United States were this not the case. Maybe that's why this first myth gets under our skin so much:

"You're just getting people to pay for your European vacation."

While we don't hear this first statement from our ministry partners who support us, it is a serious accusation.

Is Barcelona an amazing city? Totally! Do we enjoy living here? Yup! Is it a huge tourist destination? Annoyingly so!

However, living where people love to visit does not make us tourists. We´ve also lived in another major tourist destination: Amish country. Growing up in Goshen, Indiana, I never felt like a tourist even though that's a definite aspect of the area's culture. Phoenix, a place we lovingly called home for about eight years, is also a major tourist destination. Even a sleepy city like Klaipeda, Lithuania, draws lots of visitors during its summer months.

Everywhere we've lived is touristy to someone who hasn't been there. In fact, stereotypical settings for missions such as Africa and South America are also where countless people visit and drop lots of money to go on safaris, visit historical sites and consume culture — living life in a fashion that's completely separate from the locals.

The same is true for Barcelona 

Our travel here is limited to what we can access via the subway and bus. Occasionally, we find ourselves outside Barcelona for a ministry-related trip or conference. A few times we've visited some good friends who live a two-hour train ride away. Most days, however, we're grinding away with meetings, office work, language courses, getting groceries, going on family outings.

This myth is most hurtful because to imply we're on a perpetual vacation is to say we don't work — an easy assumption to make as our work doesn't all fit into a 9-to-5 window.  And to say that we've somehow tricked folks into paying for a life of leisure implies we are being disingenuous about our call to serve.

I would love to travel more as a family. Regional travel in Europe is amazing: for the same cost as traveling from Phoenix to southern California or Indianapolis to Chicago, we could see and do some amazing things. But we travel less now than ever. Usually there's too much work to do at home in Barcelona and, often, it just doesn't feel like it's worth the juggling.

Questions for reflection: 

How important is recreational travel for me/my family?

In what ways might where I live and my lifestyle be exotic to someone from another part of the world?






​Joshua Garber serves with Mennonite Mission Network in Barcelona, Spain, along with his wife, Alisha Garber.



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